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Josh Kosnick’s rise in the business world shows how far his entrepreneurial skills alone can take him. By age 35, he was one of the youngest managing partners at a Fortune 100 financial firm. By 41, he led 250 employees and managed $4 billion in assets. However, everything changed when his life’s work came crashing down. Kosnick faced a defeat that would redefine his understanding of leadership, purpose, and self-worth. Maybe having a sustainable career was about more than just entrepreneurial skills.
That fall was the turning point in his journey. “I used to think strength was about pushing harder. Now I know it’s about knowing when to pause,” he reflects. His book, The Kairos Code, details his journey from public success to suffering in private, then getting back up again. This raw guide about self-leadership, faith, and discipline showcases Kosnick’s inner resilience.
Resilience isn’t about bouncing back; It’s about rebuilding
Kosnick doesn’t pretend to romanticize resilience. For him, it’s not about bouncing back to old habits. Instead, he uses adversity as fuel to reinvent his ways. His abrupt exit from the company forced him into what he calls “the pit of despair,” a period of soul-searching where he stripped away his ego and realigned his priorities.
This fundamental experience led him to found Kairos Coaching, where he helps leaders move from reactive survival strategies to proper integration. In his framework, resilience is a conscious rebuilding of the self.
The emotional ground for leadership
Many leadership models focus on strategy, scale, and efficiency. Kosnick takes it even deeper. He stresses building emotional maturity to become a center of long-lasting influence. He speaks openly about the hidden weight leaders carry; layoffs, shame, and sacrificing financial stability for their teams can be difficult to bear.
“Leadership demands emotional discipline—and that’s not taught in most boardrooms,” he says. His 5 Bridges of Kairos provide a structured system for reflection that grounds leaders with clarity before a crisis takes place.
Putting presence before performance
One of Kosnick’s most powerful realizations is that many founders unconsciously make a trade-off between performance and presence. In the pursuit of recognition, revenue, and expansion, many leaders lose their connection to their teams, families, and even themselves.
Kosnick advocates for integrating life and leadership rather than trying to balance the two as separate. He challenges the myth of work-life balance, instead arguing for work-life integration. This shift in mindset allowed him to rebuild his professional standing and identity as a husband, father, and man with purpose.
Burnout is a system failure
Rather than seeing burnout as a personal weakness, Kosnick reframes it as an inevitable result of having misaligned systems. “Founders don’t just burn out from doing too much. They burn out from doing the wrong things for too long,” he says.
The Kairos Code offers a practical framework for recalibrating those systems before they crash.
Rebuilding a life worth leading
Josh Kosnick’s mission is to help high-achieving leaders build a life they’re proud of, rather than one they feel like they need to escape from. As a speaker, author, coach, and founder of Kairos Coaching, he invites others to trade a performance-based identity for one that is driven by purpose.
